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Roommates suggested taking turns treating everyone to meals. How can I politely decline without being left out?

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舍友们提议轮流请客吃饭，不想参加也不想请，如何礼貌拒绝不被孤立？

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First recorded Aug 25, 2026, 8:44 PM CST · latest Aug 25, 2026, 8:44 PM CST. Ranks reflect attention on each platform.

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