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Latest recorded position: #21 on Aug 7, 2026, 8:50 PM CST.
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How do you come to terms with not being loved first in equal relationships, including with parents and partners?
你们是怎么放下不被爱这个事的？或者说平等关系中，不是第一被爱，包括父母，爱人？
ThreadEast first recorded "How do you come to terms with not being loved first in equal relationships, including with parents and partners?" on Aug 7, 2026, 8:50 PM CST. It has been observed on Zhihu Hot List, with less than one hour between the first and latest recorded appearances.
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#21Source metric: 133 万热度
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