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My child told me they do not want to come first and would rather be comfortably average. What should I do?

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孩子主动和我说，不想拿第一名，只想做中等舒服的人，我该怎么办？

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Zhihu Hot ListLast observed #10 · 1.8M heat

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First recorded Nov 2, 2026, 2:09 PM CST · latest Nov 2, 2026, 2:09 PM CST. Ranks reflect attention on each platform.

Retained daily observations
Day	Platform	Best rank	Last rank
2026-11-02	Zhihu Hot List	#10	#10